08.31.25

New considerations for modern parenting and retirement in an era of longevity

Research Brief

Summary

Modern parenting in an era of longevity reveals significant financial implications for parents supporting adult children. Parents spend an estimated $425 billion annually supporting adult children—$290 billion on higher education and $135 billion on other financial support—often continuing this support until children reach their mid-thirties. This extended financial commitment frequently exceeds parents' retirement contributions, with the cohort contributing approximately $400 billion to retirement annually while supporting adult children. The study emphasizes the need for families to carefully balance supporting children without compromising their own retirement security through early planning, financial education, and strategic use of education-specific savings tools.

Parents spend more supporting adult children than on their own retirement in aggregate—$425 billion vs. $400 billion annually.

Parents spend $425B on adult children annually ($290B college, $135B other support) versus $398B on retirement, revealing a financial imbalance.

Authors

Benny Goodman

TIAA Institute

Catherine Reilly

TIAA Institute

Emily Watson

TIAA Institute

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